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| Do You Fight With Your Best Friend? If Yes, Do This To Restore Friendship You Guys! |
A true friendly will not run smoothly as you imagine. Definitely a lot of fights that will be encountered. However, there are many ways to restore your relationship you guys back on the familiar.
The quarrel was indeed never off of ourselves as social beings. Such things can happen in between anyone, including your relationships with your friends. Companions are something valuable after the family. He was someone very know and understand yourself, even exceed your family. Who have no friends or companions in this world? Everyone surely has it.
"Friendship is delicate as a glass, once broken it can be fixed but there will always be cracks." - Waqar Ahmed
But in weaves a relationship, there are times when you guys are having problems that culminated with a fight. For example, when you and your friends to like a man of the same or wrong because things are trivial. Such issues sparked a fight that can make you become a friendship rift.
However, if you have a problem with your friends, you can do the following things to restore the relationship to be good again.
1. Be the first person to apologize
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| Be the first person to apologize |
Ask for an apology to your friends while not ye that triggered the quarrel. The word "sorry" is a key that can open the relationship you guys become good again. We often ignore these words and too focused toward anger as well as problems occur thus leading to an impression of selfish and unable to resolve the problem.
Never thought to be the first in the apology is the one who loses. Be aware that indeed that person is someone who has a soul. Be more mature people in solving problems with your friends!
2. Meet him and speak from heart to heart
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| Meet him and speak from heart to heart |
If you feel by simply apologizing out unfinished, met her is probably one of the right ways. Invite him to meet and speak from the heart to the heart. Ask what's wrong with you guys, the nature of what he does not like from you and likewise vice-versa. Speak to the issue finished. Is it not fun when the problem quickly scrapped? Don't forget to hug your friends when the issue is completed.
If your friend does not want to meet, ask others to be third parties who bring you guys. Ask for help to him so that he can help resolve the problem. But, do not let the third party to in entering the problem you guys!
3. Give him time to cool down
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| Give him time to cool down |
Give time for her. Let him little shy away from you. It could be that he just needs to cool down or think about things he did. There is no harm in keeping a distance with your friends after a fight. Don't worry, true friends will know how to get back.
4. Find the topic interesting to restore an atmosphere of
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| Find the topic interesting to restore an atmosphere of |
Search for simple topics that can restore your conversation with your friends. The start of a question that would make you know how your friend's response. If the response was still not good, look for a topic that is a little complicated so he indirectly compelled to reply with a word length. If the response is good, keep it up your communication with him again like it used to.
5. Maintain communication you guys
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| Maintain communication you guys |
Communication is very important in weaves a relationship. Set time so that your communication with your friends anyway. Don't make your busy life as one reason not to get in touch with your friends in a long time. Take your time at least 5 minutes to exchange news. At least once a month, make an appointment for kinship. Do not let your busy life makes you guys relationship become porous and, unlike in the past when the school was still in the same place. Losing a best friend would be the worst thing in your life.
Well, hopefully after doing the things above, your relationships and your friends running as before again yes. Good luck!
"True friendship is never serene." — Marquise de Sevigne
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